Tomorrow is Mother's Day.
To women with children, this is a very important day.
Nearing my 7th decade, I suppose one would say I am "old school".
You know what I mean.....respectful, being courteous, diligent work ethic, yada yada.....
As a woman who is one of the very few in my circle who still has a parent living ...my Mother.....
I feel dutie-bound to provide my Mother with whatever she needs. At times, I experience extreme
frustration. She is sharp as a tack and remembers every little thing that ever happened to me! That said, she also will say one thing and then when I attempt to accommodate her, she will say something
As she is approaching her 90th year, I cannot help but feel that our days with her are surely "numbered".
However, since her health is wonderful, she just may outlive all of us!!
Nonetheless, I have moments of reflection when I think back how I thought my Mother knew everything, was the most wonderful woman and could do anything. As an adult now, I see that not all of that is true. However, rather than being disappointed in her.....I continue to value her and remember all those times she was there for me.
This brings me to Motherhood in general in my thoughts.
We Mothers spend so much of our lives in Guilt and Fear.
We constantly worry and stress from the moment we are aware of that wonder growing within us.
We worry that the Baby will be "all right". We worry about their safety. We worry about their
health. This continues into their adulthood and does not abate. (My own girls accuse me of being
a "helicopter" Mother even at their middle age!)
Then there is the Guilt. Every Mother on this planet has made mistakes. Almost all Mothers are
well-intentioned but many have made mis-steps or perhaps a lapse in judgment. Then when their children have problems, most Mothers shoulder that burden as their own personal fault. (It can be
such a "no win situation"!)
Speaking personally as a Mother, there is nothing greater in this life. When you have an extension of yourself .....it is awe-inspiring! (despite my many mistakes!) When I look at my three daughters who are each beautiful, brilliant, caring, loving, dedicated women! When I look at them with their Children and see what wonderful Mothers they are! Oh my, and then the grandchildren! Talk about a Life Complete!
I am sure most in my circle of Friends and Acquaintances feel the same!
Happy Mother's Day, Trish.ReplyDelete
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